dr rae sandler simon | licensed clinical psychologist
love your life. live well in love.™
Couples
Healing After Betrayal: Couples Therapy for the Aftermath of an Affair​
Betrayal is one of the most painful experiences a relationship can face. Its impact reaches every part of life—emotional, physical, and mental. Many people experience symptoms similar to PTSD, feeling lost, overwhelmed, and unsure how to move forward, take care of their children, or even face each day.
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In our work together, we will gently and thoroughly address the affair—exploring the feelings, hurts, and underlying causes. We will work toward healing your relationship, while also supporting you in taking care of yourself and your family. You’ll gain a deeper understanding of how your relationship became vulnerable to betrayal, and together, we’ll create a foundation of honesty, healing, and vulnerability.
With specific, proven strategies, we will help strengthen your bond and affair-proof your relationship moving forward—creating the marriage you’ve always hoped for.
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My mission and passion are to help couples and families heal and stay together whenever possible. However, sometimes reconciliation isn’t the chosen path. If you and your partner decide to move forward as co-parents rather than spouses, I will continue to guide and support you in creating a thoughtful, loving new chapter for your family. No matter the path you choose, you and your family deserve compassionate, skilled support—something I am deeply committed to providing.
If you’re the partner who stepped outside the relationship, you may be grappling with guilt, fear, and uncertainty. You might wonder if your partner will ever trust you again, if your marriage is salvageable, or how to even begin navigating family life, communication, and healing.
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The good news is: people and relationships can heal from affairs.
Together, we will find the way forward.